You have a filing system in your head, and everything new has to be slotted into it. When you say you do not understand someone, what is actually happening is that you cannot yet fit them into your picture. Once the picture holds, understanding arrives. This makes you genuinely useful: you can take something tangled, a project, an event, a business, somebody else's chaos, and lay it out in an order that works. Teaching and explaining come easily, because you can turn a pattern into words anyone can check.
This is Collective circuitry, so your opinions are meant for the group rather than aimed at individuals. They are a gift, and gifts land best when they are asked for. The pressure to speak is constant, and there is real relief in letting an opinion out, but timing decides everything. Offer the detail when someone is ready to receive it and you become the person who made it all make sense.
The trap is broadcasting anyway. Unasked-for opinions, however correct, arrive as trivia at best and correction at worst, and you meet argument instead of interest. It is easy to burn yourself out defending a view nobody invited. Hold your opinions lightly, wait for the question, then give the full picture. That is when this mind does its real work.