You notice what is wrong. You cannot really help it, and you are usually correct. Underneath the critique sits something generous: you want things to work, for everyone, and you have the fuel to keep testing a pattern until they do. Lived well, this is the engine of mastery, and it makes you the person others come to when something needs perfecting, whether that is a process, a piece of work, an institution or a craft. The insatiability is not a fault, it is what keeps you refining long after other people have settled.
This is Collective circuitry, so the correction is meant for the whole, for systems and patterns rather than for individuals. It also works when it is invited. The question you are waiting for is some version of: is there something wrong here. Asked that, you are a joy to have around. Volunteering the answer instead usually goes badly.
The trap is turning the critical eye personal. Aimed at yourself, it becomes never quite good enough. Aimed at the people closest to you, it becomes fault-finding nobody asked for, and it costs you the relationship without fixing anything. Pick your battles, wait to be asked, and spend this energy where it can genuinely make something better.