The decisive question for you is whether the environment is right: does this place, and the people and conversations within it, feel correct in your body? The reading is physical even though the authority is called mental. In a wrong setting you feel subtly off, tight, dulled, or eager to leave; in a right one you feel clear, at ease, and more like yourself. If the environment is wrong, the ideas exchanged there and the agreements struck there will be wrong too, however good they sound. So it helps enormously to physically go and stand in the settings you are weighing up. Considering a job, visit the office and sit in the actual room; considering a move, spend real time on the street and in the neighborhood before deciding anything.
Trusted people are your second instrument, and the distinction matters: they are valuable not for their advice but as sounding boards. Do not ask them what you should do. Ask them to listen while you think out loud, more than once, in the right kind of space, because it is in hearing your own words come back to you over several conversations that your answer gradually shows itself.
Watch the strength of your mind here; it is brilliant, persuasive, and it dearly wants the job of deciding for you. It will build a spreadsheet of pros and cons and declare a winner in an afternoon, and that speed is precisely the tell that it is the mind talking and not your truth. Overriding this authority looks like accepting an offer by email without ever standing in the place, or letting one clever argument settle a question your body has not yet weighed in on. Give decisions talk, movement, and time. Let the correct environment, sensed through your body across real visits and real conversations, be your guide.